I know I have not written a journal for a long time! Years went by so fast. Alot has happened along the way. This year has been the best year for me, at least for now, heh! Still doing my art, drawing and painting on slates to be sold off at deaf events both in May and November.
In the midst of all, I found love again and this guy I knew when we were 14 years old back in the late 1970s in a camp for deaf children. We used write to each other then later lost contact for some years until 5 years ago I found him in Facebook under a friend of mine from residential deaf school. What a small world! She knew him and I knew him too while he knew both of us ladies. But at the time he was married, but wife was very ill then. We kept in touch via Facebook up to the time last year, I visited him one time, only 2 hours away from each other, not bad to drive that far. Then this year, his wife had a second stroke (her first was 6 years ago plus diabetes and no legs, confined to the wheelchair) to the point that she had to be taken to the hospital then to the nursing home to recover. Unfortunately she did not recovered, went down hill. She passed away in June of this year.
Then we started dating in July as he is moving on and fell in love with me and of course I wanted him, he is such a sweetie guy I ever love! Just glad that he understood a person with special needs as I have celebral palsy in my legs( I can walk but not long distance, would have to use the crutches or scooter). He is deaf or hard of hearing, he is a geek, always likes to be on the computer, loves history and reads politics..... and of course we have a lot in common.... STAR TREK, CATS, CAWWWFEEE!
His name is Neal.
We have a wonderful relationship that he decided he wanted me to move in with him as he does not like being alone. Poor man! On September 20 I made the preparation to move to his place as he had a house already paid off the mortatage. Yippeee! I was living in a small apartment, barely have room for my art supplies and to do my artwork on a small table. Neal has 3 bedrooms, so one of the rooms can be turn into an art studio... about time!!! I have so much stuff! LOL!
Still have a lot of mess to clean up before I can settle to do more work on my art to prepare for the deaf festival coming up in November 8 in northern Indiana. My art studio is about done. Next have to work on the living room and Kitchen. Can't wait for remodelling on the house as the house really needs a lot of work on due to neglect in years Neal had to take care of wife 24/7 when she was ill and bedridden, he had no time to do repairs on the house. We are getting help to repair or remodel soon. As for the art stuidio, Neal told me to do whatever I want with it. I am planning on painting the room two different shades of purple as it is my favorite color. I guess I will have the fun doing it, heh!
Oh I so love Neal!
Also, this year I will be 50! I have come a long way in years. College, jobs, married 9 years and divorced, lead through a happy life living by myself, now new love. All is good in my life!
Oh could do a Snoopy dance! I am happy!! With the man I love!!!